Send me your best links on inequality and privilege

[metagnat]

Hi all,

This will be a rare post that's in the clear, because I want to cast a wide net, here.

I am in the middle of trying to change someone's mind. Namely, my father. He doesn't believe that privilege exists. Specifically, because there are poor white men, he does not believe that whiteness or maleness gives anyone inherent advantages in our society.

This made me very angry and, after a long ramping-up period, I finally told him so. Last night. Amongst other things that have nothing to do with political debating, but that is neither here nor there. Please send me your best links on any kind of privilege at all or any kind of inequality. Anything is great - essays, videos, maps, etc. Bonus points for anything that shows real hard data.

What I have sent him so far:
Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack
Things I Don't Have To Think About Today
The Extent of White Class Advantage

I want the best and most convincing stuff I can get a hold of. I can (and will) seek out links, myself, but I know if I go through all the stuff I would have to go through to get the best ones, I will be reduced to a gibbering pile of lefty rage.

My dad is a late-middle-aged person who is almost completely out of touch with current pop culture, so please keep that in mind when sifting your favorites. And please, if you're inclined, pass this request on to interested parties.

Comments

[entrope.livejournal.com]

I think Cos posted something remarkably clear on the subject a few months ago. I'll check.

[rmd.livejournal.com]

http://slacktivist.typepad.com/slacktivist/2010/08/please-forgive-me-for-the-actions-of-extremists-i-have-never-met-who-commit-acts-of-violence-that-i-.html

http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=225685 on blind orchestra auditions.

http://www.chicagobooth.edu/capideas/spring03/racialbias.html are emily and brendan more employable than lakisha and jamal?

[swan-tower.livejournal.com]

A recent post from John Scalzi: Things I Don't Have to Think About Today.

[anadamous.livejournal.com]

Check out the videos at the bottom of this page:
http://stuffwhitepeopledo.blogspot.com/2009/11/slip-past-security-more-easily.html

I also love the Tim Wise book Colorblind...

[novalis.livejournal.com]

Imagine if the tea party was black.

[pastwatcher]

Hi! Directed here by lowellboyslash, I didn't realize you had LJ. I had a page up of links like this for a while, but it needs editing. Here are some of my best:

Firstly, A list of privilege lists.

Advertising tells us how to be normal, and this is bad. Also, a study about how men's objectification affects women's behavior and feelings, but not vice versa.

A video on freedom of gender

I don't have any "best" links for white privilege, though I can recommend a book I read while learning in real life about it: Courageous Conversations about Race. It's really a guide for public-school educators, but for all that it's pretty good. I also just found a series of five videos by white people who learned something about their privileges. I think some of the "related" features would be from the perspectives of some people of color, though.

Finally, it sounds like your dad might benefit from a couple of Derailing for Dummies hits: Arguing with opinions or anecdotes and the next two; unfortunately there doesn't seem to be one for the most basic "But I don't see it, so it must not exist."

Oh, and if you can, get him to look up what a "silencing tactic" is.

[sparkymonster.livejournal.com]

http://www.delicious.com/starkeymonster/forcluelesswhitepeople

Those are my top links (42!) though maybe half are focused on scifi genre fandom.

And Tim Wise (http://www.timwise.org/) is pretty much the go to white guy on this subject.

[sparkymonster.livejournal.com]

Also watching Jay Smooth on the Youtube will fill you with joy
http://www.youtube.com/user/illdoc1

Elon James White will not help you talk wtih your dad, but he is flipping hilarious
http://www.youtube.com/user/bccofilms

[http://users.livejournal.com/little_e_/]

I think that if you want to talk to someone about privilege, you should have some sort of actual goal in mind. To be poor is a form of anti-privilege. To be white is usually form of privilege (if you're a white person in Zimbabwe, being white might get you murdered). Few people are entirely privileged or entirely unprivileged. Even a poor black person has more privilege than a starving quadriplegic black person, for example.

People focus on their privilege relative to the people around them, and someone who feels they have less power than others is going to feel unprivileged, regardless of how shitty things are for other people. If your goal is just to say, "it's better to be a poor white person than a poor black person," he probably already knows that. If your goal is something beyond that, you might try starting from a different angle closer to your goal.